My husband and I did it. Many of us did. We jumped into the deep end and never looked back. Just keep swimming. We did. Lap after lap. From low tide to high. Now we find ourselves not in the water but poolside, beachside. Watching. And this time around it’s different. Because it isn’t us swimming upstream. This time we serve as witnesses to the action. Sometimes, this new role feels even more intense than living it out personally. Of course it isn’t. But we are reliving the past and wondering just how the heck we did it. We aren’t super heroes or ...