They say it changes you. It transforms you in ways you never could have or would have imagined before. Grief. Deep, formidable life-altering grief. Something you never could have, would have or wanted to see coming. At first you don’t believe it. Your mind can’t grasp this new reality that has suddenly become yours. How could anything change the world you’ve come to believe as true? That would be impossible. You’ve spent your entire life creating we, and then suddenly the we becomes me. Alone. Lonely. Feeling like you are at a dead end. You were satisfied with your life and can’t imagine ...