At first, grief seems overwhelming because it is. It almost kills you, quite literally, and I don’t feel good admitting that. But it’s the truth.At first life goes on without you. Beside you. Away from you. Apart from you. Very, very distant from you.Everyone around you is going and doing and laughing and living, while you are grieving. They are kind and polite, but most of them aren’t quite sure what to say or do.I used to be one of those people. And then grief hit me like a freaking atom bomb.In the first days of grief, you struggle to ...