I will never forgive him for what he did!” Have you ever said that to yourself about someone who deeply hurt you? When someone you trust lies, physically abuses, verbally intimidates or uses you - it hurts. It causes emotional injuries that swell up into resentment, anger or bitterness. And what the person has done, makes them a “debtor”. Meaning, because of what they have done, they owe you. They owe you an apology or something to try and make things right. In these situations, have you ever asked yourself, “What do I really want from them?” Honestly speaking, is there ...